Family Safety: Play Date

Keeping Your Child Safe When They Are On A Play Date

Special thanks to S.A.Arrango for his research.

Every parent has heard the words "play date" and probably has had their child on one. The routine is usually the same! Your child comes home from school and says my friend Kelly or Tom wants me to come over tomorrow after school for a play date… can I go? The parent’s next response goes something like this: I’ll talk to or call Kelly or Tom's mom or dad and see if it’s all right. My question to you, the parent is:

How Well Do You Know The Family And Their Home?

We want your children to first be safe and then have a great time. Here are a series of questions you should know before your child participates in a play date.

1.) Have you ever been to or in your child’s friend’s home? Do they have a swimming pool? Are there steep stairs and/or safety railings? How well are they going to be supervised? We have all heard at least one horror story, probably more, of a child drowning when left alone for a short period of time.

2.) Are you members of the family in law enforcement where there may be firearms in the home? If a child gets hold of an unsecured gun, we all know accidents can happen!

3.) Do they have any pets? Dogs, cats, parrots, snakes? Remember that any new person coming into a home is a stranger to any pet and also consider this if your child has allergies.

4.) Older siblings – Do they have any and what are they like? Are their friends going to be over also? A point to remember is a high percentage of child molestations are done by older children, usually familiar to the victim.

We want kids to have a great time with their friends, but our responsibility is always to make sure they will be safe.

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